read the full post Hello I have come on here for some support as I have suffered great depression and anxiety trying to stand by my partner, we have a 2 year old daughter and I have tried not to enable him so he gave him self a kick up the bum to recover however he took the cowards way out and slept withsome behind my back this has let me ver distraught..
he has since moved in with her he had only known her a few da…
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His lapses are scary, and usually happen when I least expect them, I'll go to work and everything will be fine and come back to find him drunk, covered in sick or self-harming. read the full post If you are a parent who has a child (including adult children over 18) who has a drug or alcohol problem and you have experienced abusive behaviour from them then we can help.
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In the time we have been together he has relapsed on heroin, and in the process of recovery has sporadically had episodes of heavy drinking.
He works very hard but away from his job, all he does is smoke cannabis. read the full post I got Married a year ago to my childhood sweetheart from the age of 17, I am now 31 and have been through many different situations which lead us to break up and get back together.
When we finally decided this is what we wanted, we got married but it was shortly after that I noticed a change in his behaviour and looking rather withdrawn and spending alot of time in the toilet. read the full post I found out several months ago that my 19 year old son was taking drugs, he has admitted to taking cocaine in the past and maintains he only smokes dope now.
read the full post My son is biologically an adult. His mother refuses to kick him out, I guess because of his mental disorder, she is afraid for him. He is Absolutely out of my control, doesn't listen to me at all, does what ever he wants, stays out whenever and wherever he wants, i have no control of him.
I am a single mum feeling Absolutely helpless, don't know what to do i am loosing him. read the full post You are the most loyal, loving, caring, patient person I have ever met and who has the most beautiful of souls.