Children are not "baggage", they are a gift and just want to be loved and treated kindly.
Guys who get involved with a single mom and believe for one second that they are going to be the priority in the woman's life are not the sharpest tools in the shed.It turns out there is very little literature on how to date someone who has children. After running into him over a period of months, we began dating.Overnight, I was thrown into a brave, new world -- one that involved a tween.I approached this situation as realistically as I could, most women in my age group do have children.Some men feel children to be "baggage" and steer well clear of it.But I quickly learned that this wasn't my kid, and the rules were different at my boyfriend's house. So if I felt a Playstation attack coming on, I left. I invited them places and if they didn't want to go, I went with someone else or by myself. If he doesn't do anything about it if it happens again, go straight to the kid. (And I can hear the parents recoiling that the childless girl is suggesting it! She not only gave vows to her new husband, she also gave vows to her new stepson.