But if you are considering him as possible life-partner, it’s good to know what you’re getting into, so you can decide, very consciously, whether you want to wade into deeper levels of commitment with him.Here are some questions to consider: Did he leave Was there infidelity? It’s good to know why they decided to split up and how the split went.A guy on the rebound doesn’t necessarily want to be with of having a girlfriend and being in a relationship.If you’ve decided that you still want to date him, as I mentioned earlier, go in very aware of the situation and with your expectations are in check.What are your needs, wants, and requirements for a fulfilling relationship, and how divorced or separated are the least likely to be emotionally available for a new relationship.This is because they might still be recovering from their recent breakup; the painful emotions, anger, and sense of loss might still be very fresh and raw. It really depends on where his readiness is, and whether your experience of him meets your relationship requirements.But what can you do to balance your heart with your head?The most important thing you can do to protect yourself from heartbreak is to go into your relationship with your eyes open, and with your expectations in check.
You probably have a million questions on your mind. With that said, if you meet someone you’re really attracted to, but the ink on his divorce papers hasn’t yet had time to dry, you are going to need to approach some things differently if you want to minimize the risk of getting your heart broken.To be clear, there’s nothing wrong with being the rebound woman, if that’s what you want to be.But, if you don’t want to be the rebound woman, and you’re not aware that you are the rebound woman, that’s when you’re at risk of getting hurt.Or if really bitter about the divorce, his unresolved feelings about the divorce might affect your relationship.If he has kids, then you want to know what the arrangement is, so you can know what to expect when it comes to him providing childcare, and communication with the mother of his children.Unless he owns a Major League Baseball team, or founded an internet search engine, his available funds probably took a big hit with the divorce’s legal fees and the ongoing alimony and child support.